Be WiTh Me

Initially when I got my bike, it was being hit on the front when that darn ah peck reversed his car and he scold me for parking my bike behind his car. Now I got hit on the left of my bike by a car, I had to pay the driver for the damages done to his car. Oh man…. What in the world is going on? Bully me just because I am a rider and new on the road with the bike?? Hey you darn people!! I am a driver for many years too!! And I drive a bloody lorry which is so much bigger in size than your darn car!!! F**K!!

I got into an accident at a junction to Bishan this afternoon (18.08.07) while I was on my way to meet Rae. For so many years on the road, I have never been rammed by a car on the road and today’s experience was really no good.

I was waiting to make a right turn at the cross junction to street 23. When the light turned green, I had my bike inch forward and waited for the on-coming traffic to clear before making the turn. When the road was finally cleared, I moved on and when my bike reached the oppsite lane near the kerb, I heard a vehicle sounded its horn at me. I turned my head to the left and saw an on-coming car coming from my left. Before I could do anything, this black car rammed onto the left side of my bike, at the wheel. At this very moment, all I could think was "Shit!". The lucky thing is, though I wobbled, I didn’t fall nor injure myself.

Together with the car driver, we both stopped along the road on the left away from the junction. I got down from my bike and was surprised to see that it has got no damage. As for the other car (Lexus sport), its bumper has got scratches and its sport light is cracked. The moment the driver got down from the car, he asked me what was I doing and that his is a brand new car. The most weird question he asked was why did I turn when the light is green. Well, right away I answered back that of course I turned when its green light and for this type of junction, I don’t have to wait for the green arrow. Moreover, I have already checked that the the traffic is cleared. I did told him that he was coming fast but he denied. I mean if it was my fault, I believed I would have been throw off my bike and got myself killed. Anyway, he was still a gentlement who didn’t raised his voice and we just took down each other’s particulars, saying that he would ask Lexus’ company to call me. We didn’t go to the police station as he said he was going for a golf session. In this case, I will have to file a report with my insurance company too.

Oh man…. What a day. The feeling of being rammed is really terrible especially when you are riding. However, I am still glad that I am not injure at all except from the the little shock I suffered. As the saying goes, "Good luck is bound to follow when you escape from death." Hope that things will go smoothly for me from now on. 

What is the real defination of a worthy friend? Do you know the answer?

Lately, I start to ponder over this question and wonder who has the right to judge if one person is a worthy friend of another person, especially when you don’t even know who is who and what is what. The funny thing is that I happened to come across an incident which indirectly got me involved.

One day, a guy (D) called up his female friend (B). His purpose of calling was a little funny to me. He wanted blessing from B on his relationship with gf (A). All along, B has been rather neutral about the 2 being together and so she find his approach a little off too. Firstly, D and A are already together. So does it really matter whether they have blessing from others if they really love one another. Secondly, if B were not give him her blessing, is D gonna break up with A? Lastly, if D were to give blessing, and things turned out ugly, is D gonna push all the blame to B? Come on lor, B is not a god nor some Goddess of Mercy whom by seeking her blessing, everything will turn out beautifully. If so, think I wanna ask B for some 4-D advice!

Next came another sensitive topic. D told B he felt insecured with his current relationship with A and wanted B to tell him more about A. As an old friend of A and a normal friend to D, B honestly told D things regarding A. Instead of being glad that he has got a chance to know his current gf better, he blew his top and commented that B and all are not worthy friends of A. And that he believed in A and does not wish to speak to B anymore. Before B could even react, he slammed down on her.

I don’t mean to be rude nor taking sides but hello to D, how long have you known A and how much do you know about A? You said you trust her and passed your judgement on B and all saying that all are not worthy friends to A. If you really trust her that much as you said so, would you have feel insecure about this relationship with A? Doubt you would even need to call B for blessing…. Think about it. And if B and all are not worthy friends, would they stood by A after so long when she got hooked up with shit problems? Talking about not worthy…. It definately suits you better Mr D.

My Little Xiao Hei’s Number finally came out on Wednesday (08.08.07) 4-D after a long wait since the eve of my birthday. Though it wasn’t in the exact sequence, I am still glad that it appeared in the starter prize. On the same row that day was my Hp number. Bingo. Hee…. As the saying goes, "No fish, prawn also can." (in Hokkien) Ha…. Will still be waiting for my Xiao Hei to strike it big!!

Met up with Yiwei & Baverly at 11 plus in the late evening (10.08.07) at Bliss to chill out. For people who dunno where this place is, its actually a dining place located at Punggol Park. Yup. Right inside the park. We were supposed to have a game of mahjong but because of various difference in our timing, we chilled out instead.

I was the only one on acoholic. Bav had Iced-Earl Grey and Yiwei had Lychee freeze. I had 3 mugs of beer in total. Should have bought a jug man. Hey the beer is real cheap. A mug of Foster for $4.90, and a jug for $18.10. Hmm…. Whats with the 10 behind…. Anyway, no worries about me getting high or drunk cos I went to the park by foot. Its just a bus-stop away from my block. Beside drinking and sitting around, we gossip just about everything and anything. Ha…. Thats part of life man.

It was at Bliss that I saw an old friend of mine. Haven’t seen her for ages. Oh…. She happened to be working there. Well, she is still the same as ever, so cheerful and funny.

We stayed around at Bliss till it was almost 2am. Bav’s bf came to pick pick her up and she got him to send Yiwei and me home though I can just walk. Hey thanks Bav. =)

Hey guys, if you dunno that Kumar is having a comedy performance at Hard Rock Cafe on every Monday night, do pay her a visit there. Her bitchiness shall make you burst into tears while you are laughing your heart out. I am definately for advertising for her but just want all of you to enjoy yourself and laugh till you drop!!! Ha ha….

I was there last night having dinner with my friends before we watch her performance with her company and I really gotta tell you guys that all of you will never regreat watching her on stage. Whatever she said, you will just laugh uncontrollably.

If you are feeling down, do go watch and laugh all your sorrows and unhappiness away. I would love to go and watch her performance again despite all her sarcasium and bitchiness!!! Hee…. =)

Two hours before my work today (06.08.07), my hp started to vibrate vigorously. Initially, I thought it was my alarm but only to find out that it was an incoming call from an unfamiliar number. Picking up the call, it was a guy on the other line asking if I was Shaun’s (my brother) sister. I told him I am and the next thing he said was that my brother has been caught by the police on ground for drink driving. I was pissed off. They are grown up adults and yet they still get themselves into this type of shit. Because of this, I was kept awake and had to take urgent leave. Half an hour later, my idiotic brother called to ask me to bail him out. Though we are not on talking terms, I still agreed to go down to the police station at Ubi.

I had to leave the house almost right away cos my parents cannot be told as they would most probably give my brother hell, especailly my mum. I waited for quite sometime before he was allowed on bail. Court hearing will be on the 23rd of Aug at 9am. So to all the drivers and riders (including me), please do not drink and drive. U can only do one thing at a time. If you drive, don’t drink. If you drink, take a public transport home.

After we were done with the paper work, we were led to retrieve the car. I was astonished to see scratches in white and yellow paint on the driver’s door as well as the door behind. My brother and his friend did not notice it. The first question I popped to my brother was "Did you get into an accident earlier on?" Both he and his friend said no and the police officer had also verify that the car has got no damages when it was hand over to the police. So it must be the towing company that the TP had engaged. Hence, we got to call the officer down to take a look and took some photographs.

Due to this problem, we didn’t wanna drive the car home and stayed put at the station till the tow truck came back. Well, a few of the officer in-charge all verified that its the tow truck that caused the scratches and that there is no other scratches other then the right side doors. Hence, they were being asked to settle the problem for us. In return, the towing company agreed to had the scratches removed and re-paint the car doors. The manager in-charge said that they would come by to pick up the car from our house. Thus, we went home and it was already almost 11am! Six and a half hour after my brother was caught. Damn….You see how slow they work to get things done? Only fast on certain things. You get what I mean…. Wasted my half day just like that.

The car did not came back till it was 6 plus in the evening. We weren’t happy with the paint job done cos it was such a rough work then. On top of that guess what I found? Guys if you are reading this, you are not gonna believe it. There is NEW scratches near the petrol cover at the rear of the car!!!!! Its in whits and blue colour. Oh my god! Just where the hell did the TP department engaged this towing company for. This is freaking annoying and the towing company denied its their fault.

I don’t mean to be rude nor anything but I suggest that the TP department to engage a more professional towing company cos it seems like the people from the towing company are more ‘drunk’ then my brother. What kind of company is this man. I am sure the TP department can afford a better towing company right?? If this were to go on, I think by catching more drink drivers, they are gonna cause more inconvenience to themselves as all the drivers will start to lodge complaints against the towing company. Do something!!!! We are in a high-tech country, not some kampong or third world country man….. This is ridiculous!

Anyway, because of my brother’s misfortune (license being suspended), it became my fortune. Why? Because I get to drive now and no one is fighting with me. So my friends, please start asking me out ya. Now its my turn to party.

For weeks, I tried to forget about the uhappiness and pain in me by burying myself under my work. I seriously don’t understand what I did to deserve whatever has happened to me. A simple life is all I ask for, yet I ended up in misery…. Not being a perfect person, I still tried my best to compromise and make everyone happy. However, what really ‘kills’ me is not being appreciated….

I am not being pessimistic nor emotional, just that I don’t understand why…. I need a break…. A very long break from everything and anything…. Its draining me out…. How I wish I have someone of my own who I can turn to….